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Originally Posted by CopyCat
Ok Cindy I'll try and help... I would say first off don't get all wide eyed and emotional...
Well I'm probably to late for that one... I think you did right by telling the principal,
but you will want to ask just what steps the school plans to take to stop this...
Make sure there going to get the ball rolling on this... Ok now you need to listen
to your daughter very carefully as she describes how this bullying episode played
out... Your going to have to try and read between the lines here because most
kids won't tell you the whole story... And do not criticize or blame her, but often
times kids are picked on for there lack of social skills, or for being over talkative
about something the bully did, or said, or something... But if you can pin point
what started this, it could help... You will need to talk about what she will need
to do if this happens again... Don't ask me because I don't know the specifics of this...
By no means do you want to contact the bully’s parents, let the school do that...
Its there job, hopefully they have procedures that they follow for this kinda situation...
Thats about all I got, oh I'd say to concentrate on finding a solution to this problem
and not on punishing the bully... That could really back fire on you and make things
worst for your daughter than they already are... I do hope that maybe
some small part of this might help you...
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Thanks for your advice its a huge help.
Today was a good day for my daughter she was not picked on at all, but today was a half day so Monday may be a different story...