I wish I had more advice for you. I've never had any sort of plan of attack my whole life, relationships just happened for me. I've been in my current one for 10 years now, so I'm probably a little rusty myself. But maybe that's the answer, you may be trying
too hard. Just sit back awhile and see what happens, go out around with some friends to local clubs and just see if something pops up. I think women can sense if you're really desparate and it might be a turn-off.
Also maybe stick on a fake wedding band, I've heard that helps too.
