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03-19-2008, 04:24 PM
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Women Faking Orgasms !!!
 I know this is probably a touchy subject and most of you won't say anything on this thread... But oh boy I really hate this one, and I don't understand the reason for it in the first place... From what I've read, 70% of all women say that they have faked an orgasm... I thought you ladies didn't like lying, well that is just what you are doing when you fake an orgasm... How are we to know that we are not doing our job properly if you girls fake an orgasm ??? We never know, although I've had my suspicions before... Like when you start that jerking around and moaning after only 10 minutes or so, or when you start that same stuff at exactly the same time I start to reach my climax... Needless to say, I have never in my life tried to fake an orgasm... If I don't have one, that is fine by me... It has been my experience that when I don't have one, you girls get all upset thinking you haven't done your job... To which I say "don't worry about it girl, we'll try again in a little while" I like you guys owing me an orgasm, that means more sex later... But I don't like you girls lying to me, faking orgasms... If you feel like you have to lie to us, just say ouch, or owee every now and then... We love that, it makes us think we are doing some good...
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03-19-2008, 05:53 PM
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As the saying goes, "Women fake orgasms because men fake foreplay."
That said, what sort of responses were you expecting to get from posting this anyway? It's a personal matter between (usually) two people.
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03-19-2008, 06:29 PM
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I don't know what kind of response to expect... I do know that girl guy problems like this will never get any better if no one talks about it... I'm all for an open line of communication, that is the way people solve problems like this... And I love foreplay myself, the seductive talk, kissing, caressing, massaging, and teasing, I love to tease... You know like not getting all to sexually intimate for a long time, far too long... lol !!! That is when its good, when your trembling with anxiety to touch your partner sexually... 
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03-19-2008, 11:06 PM
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Is it getting hot in here or is it just me?
To kinda sorta submit an answer to your question... I'm going to have to go out on a limb here and say that it is probably an attempt to not hurt the guy's feelings and for whatever reason not being comfortable enough to have those open lines of communication. I agree with you that it's definitely very healthy to be able to talk about likes and dislikes etc... but not everyone is comfortable with doing so (probably a sign that you shouldn't be that intimate with one another if you can't talk about such things). I personally think people are too quick to hop in the sack nowadays... but I guess that's because I'm old.
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03-19-2008, 11:59 PM
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My personal feelings on this is when a woman fakes it instead of communicating with the lover she does it either to make him feel like he's doing a good job or to get over with something that she's not to into at the moment. I've definitely btdt.
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03-20-2008, 12:27 AM
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LOL yes I think it is getting HOT IN HERE.. LOL... OK all I am going to say is WELL SAID... and leave it at that...
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03-20-2008, 02:18 AM
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Wow !!! You girls keep on talking, I'll just sit over here on the side and take notes... I'm picking up some good stuff here... I will say that I think most of us guys would much rather that you said "Whoa cowboy, lets slow down" than have you do that whole going threw the motions thing... I mean I'm fine with going back downstairs on the couch and having another glass of wine, the longer this takes the better I like it... There is sexual graduation, and then there is satisfying sexual graduation... I can only obtain number two if I feel like we are both equally happy with the evenings outcome... 
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03-20-2008, 08:28 AM
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I guess I'm old enough to reply here although my username seems too young for it. For me, its really not that important if my partner won't show satisfaction through vocal expressions.
Sexual intercourse is somewhat like food. Sometimes you have your appetite to eat and therefore you love the food even though its just plain food. But when you don't have appetite, you just appreciate the person who cook, at least you have something to eat. I guess that is what the girls are doing on fake orgasms. But let's hear more on the ladies.
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03-20-2008, 08:10 PM
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OMG !!! Jr. you are just the kinda guy these ladies are talking about... Your comparing sexual intercourse to mickey-D's... Girls are different, never say don't cry to a lady... Let her talk about herself, ask her about the clothes she is wearing, tell her she is pretty, No matter how average she looks, this maybe the women that you have been looking for your whole life... To not realize this is pretty shallow mate, your making us look bad... 
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03-20-2008, 08:34 PM
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Man I have gotten a chuckle from this one a great deal.
I have never faked (with current or past). If they don't know, you cant teach them, and I am all about teaching. Open lines of communications are good, and seriously if you compare intimacy to food, its one thing to appreciate the cook, but when the food taste like crap you are going to complain right? :D
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